Wednesday, May 22, 2013

Thank YOU for coming out!

I just wanted to say a big thank you to everyone who made it out to our relationship discussion at the Sterling Library. It was a great success and I hope everyone enjoyed meeting new people and getting your questions answered!


Also a HUGE thank you to purchasers of my book, Hope For Trust USA and TIME WARNER, who make it possible for us to continue our events (and giving us good energy and support)!

Stay tuned for our next event on relationship strategy. More details to come.

Daniyel S. Willis
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Saturday, May 11, 2013

Meet The Author!


Join Daniyel S. Willis, D.D., author of the Boys Lie Men Don't debut edition, Conversations and Thoughts on Relationships, for a presentation, talks and answer questions event Wednesday, March 15, 2013 from 6:30p - 8p at Sterling Library in Sterling, Virginia!
Dr. Daniyel gives you easy-to-use tips for avoiding common arguments and relationship conflicts that can work for you. Discussions and signing will follow the presentation. Adults. This is a FREE event!



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Friday, May 10, 2013

Fire The Adviser In Your Head...

All of us are plagued by a "disagreeable inner voice," which provides an inner dialogue of destructive thoughts toward ourselves and others. These "voices" not only do damage to our confidence and self-esteem, they also wreak havoc on our intimate relationships. Through doubtful thinking, our disagreeable inner voice encourages our defenses and diminishes our trust in others. Sometimes these thoughts come in the form of self-attacks (i.e. "You're such an idiot, no wonder you're alone!"), other times they attack the objects of our affection (i.e. "He is so pathetic, why do you even like that jerk?"). Another way the voice operates is by providing bad advice (i.e. "You can't trust anyone. Don't be too vulnerable or you will look like a fool.")

Listening to these "voices" and acting on their bad advice, creates a greater fear of intimacy and puts distance between people in a relationship. Identifying specific things your disagreeable inner voice says about you and your relationship is the first step toward breaking the pattern. Another effective technique I teach is "response therapy," a process of verbalizing the the negative point of view of the disagreeable inner voice and then answering back to it with the "real-you" point of view, is an effective way to insure that this negative thought pattern doesn't continue to interfere with your relationship.







Dr. Daniyel Willis is conducting the free webinars "You Must Learn To Love More" on BlogTalk Radio from 11:30am -12pm PST. Click here to learn more or to register

Read more from Dr. Daniyel Willis on relationships in BLMD - Conversations and Thoughts on Relationships


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