Secretly Men Looking For In Women...

Ladies, over-stand that your Beauty and Value are NOT defined by how you look or what you own. To Real MEN your beauty and value is defined by your Substance (the real you) and your ability to RECEIVE love.

Please, stop drawing your cues from other women. That's YOU looking and desiring big butts, huge breasts, weave hairstyles, imitating lifestyles of other women and thinking that's what WE want?!  Well, its' NOT. Real MEN appreciate the small things and you do NOT need to wear a full face of makeup and all those "goodies." Period!

Real MEN take pride in his Woman! He will sacrifice EveryThing if it will put a smile on his woman's face. Consider us, our feelings, our situations, and the fact that we want to be respected EXACTLY how you want to be respected and watch our World open up to you. Understand that the way you treat others (and YOURSELF) dictates the way others treat (react to) you.

Bottomline, Real Men need to be Appreciated. Many of women tend to take their partners for granted. Women need to learn to say, "Babe, you're the best at this, or look at you! Look how you mowed my lawn! You're the best lawn mower in the state!" Sounds extreme? Well, he isn't no more interested in what kind of heels you're wearing - if he likes you in heels at all.

Why? Men think, Women feel.  Men speak headlines and Women speak in fine print. Women should learn to read the headlines and NOT press for details.  Like stop being pushy for the details to his answer when you ask a question.  It's okay to ask your man, "What do you think about that?" He might say, "It's fine." But don't get pushy if you're expecting more of an answer, because they're might not be one.

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WE ALL NEED TO MATTER (TO OURSELVES) FIRST!

Quite often I speak with people who have a very hard time putting themselves first. Not only putting themselves first, but putting themselves anywhere other than last, of mattering at all to themselves.

They feel a need or compulsion, or perhaps have developed a habit of caring for others, of giving until they literally have nothing left. They consistently put themselves last. There is a difference between helping the responsible and knowing when you are being used. It's only by saying "no" that you can concentrate on the things that are really important. 

Some of the most rewarding experiences I have in speaking with people is when they learn that they too are freely given respect, kindness, friendship and love; never chased love and approval from others and most importantly love from themselves, towards themselves.

"Don't forget that YOU matter. When you say "yes" to others make sure you are NOT saying "no" to yourself!" 

You matter, you really and truly do. Putting yourself first and or at least in the equation, doesn't make you a bad person or any less of a giver or a kind soul. It simply means you are learning to be a kind soul to your own soul, to your own self.

So put yourself first sometimes, make a new habit of it even and you'll thank yourself later.

SAY YES TO YOU AND YOUR NEEDS, SHOW YOURSELF THAT YOU MATTER (you really do).

It will affect all areas of your life when you do so for you will no longer be willing to be anyone's doormat and you will not accept anything less than good things for: YOU.

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Break-up and Relationship Expert - Dr. Daniyel

More than 50% of marriages in America end in divorce after a loving relationship of a mere 5 years, Dr. Daniyel Willis, sadly points out that statistic. While others trying to cope with the agony of their break-up, Dr. Daniyel, new study of health practitioners, realized that there is a huge community dealing with the same obstacles. He vowes to turn what seemed like a negative event into a proactive and optimistic life transition.


"Supporting each other is really important. It's so easy to be disrespectful. Recognizing your personal responsibility is one of the most powerful ways of establishing and validating trust. Make note, males do not have much of a challenge with resentment. However ladies, males close to you have to get lots of messages that he is successful to stay motivated!"

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·       Are You in a Parasitic Relationship?

·    Your Gut can tell you if a Relationship is Right

·       Ways Women Sabotage Themselves when Dating

·      Breaking The Bad Date Cycle

·     Common Problems Daters Encounter after Break-ups

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Intellect And Mind VS The Heart...

 Most people try to avoid expressing what’s in their heart. Today more men want to acknowledge their feelings in the first place because of the desire to bring women closer and women suppress them as not to be vulnerable. Because one may care more about a person the more complicated the relationship get.

My advice is to just talk about your feelings from day one! If you're not honest about your feelings in the beginning of the relationship it's probably sure not to work anyway!

If you CARE to be in a committed relationship, SPEAK UP! Don't bite your tongue and wake up two or three years from now still in a casual and sexual relationship. Most importantly, get clarity that your partner wants the same!

Men, if you FEEL like you just want to have a sexual relationship with no strings attached, FORGET ABOUT IT! Women can’t continue to create sexual and chemical bonds with you and allow uncertainty. It's not fair and its bad assumption even if the woman thinks it’s possible!

If you CARE enough to settle down, get married and/or have children, LET IT BE KNOWN! Do NOT waste your time with someone who doesn't want what you want?

And lastly, if you FEEL unappreciated, don't allow another day to pass without having a “CARE-frontation.” Without accusing your partner, share your experiences (information) that’s going to Enhance, Heal, Grow, and Advance the relationship.

What you FEEL is important write on paper first! Fear, Resentment, and Avoidance of Confrontation can be eliminated once you are “willing to be wrong about what you thought the person might say, do, respond or what you thought was going on.”  You miss the essentials when YOU want to be right and prove the other person wrong!

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