Are men really as obsessed with sex as women been led to believe? Do women like to make the first move under the sheets? Societal labeling says one thing, but what’s the real truth when it comes to men and women?
With more than 23
years in private practice as a relationship coach helping clients
overcome all kinds of personal obstacles and challenges, my clients have confided all sorts of deep dark secrets about their wants and
desires. The biggest lesson I've learned: don’t buy into how men and women have
been pigeon-holed into certain roles. In fact, much of what you've been
led to believe about the opposite sex is the polar opposite of reality.
Some examples of
what I will be elaborating on in the near future:
Men:
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Many men have said
they don’t like to have sex every day, or as often as men have been portrayed as
wanting to have sex.
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Men aren’t the
cold-tough guys they appear to be. There is an emotional disconnect from their
relationship when their spouse doesn’t compliment or praise them enough, thus less intimacy from the man.
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Many men have
admitted they are not intimidated their spouse earns more money than they
do. Men are not interested in their spouse's physical accomplishments.
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Men have secretly
admitted that they like when their spouse decorates the house and even makes it
more feminine, especially nowadays. Men yearn for Miss Independant to come back to the feminine side - romance, communication, and providing extra support of him.
Women:
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Many women say they
find it hot when their guy is not so stubborn and ask for help, ask for
directions, and determination to accomplish something. Though they
may react frustrated, know it’s really a turn on because it shows confidence.
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Many women say they
secretly like it when their men do the laundry or clean the house, even if they
do a lousy job and mess everything up. It shows initiative.
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Many women have said that they find it sexy when they can make the first move and initiate
sex, but are frustrated when they always want to be the dominating force.
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On the topic of
weight: Many women said they want their men to be honest about how an outfit
makes them look, even if he thinks it’s not flattering or makes her look big.
They believe honesty says a lot about the man they are with.
Please consider getting your copy Boys Lie Men Don't - Conversations and Thoughts on Relationships to read more of how men and women mis-perceived one another compared to the
way things really are.
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