Break-up and Relationship Expert - Dr. Daniyel

More than 50% of marriages in America end in divorce after a loving relationship of a mere 5 years, Dr. Daniyel Willis, sadly points out that statistic. While others trying to cope with the agony of their break-up, Dr. Daniyel, new study of health practitioners, realized that there is a huge community dealing with the same obstacles. He vowes to turn what seemed like a negative event into a proactive and optimistic life transition.


"Supporting each other is really important. It's so easy to be disrespectful. Recognizing your personal responsibility is one of the most powerful ways of establishing and validating trust. Make note, males do not have much of a challenge with resentment. However ladies, males close to you have to get lots of messages that he is successful to stay motivated!"

BoysLieMenDont.com is an outlet that offers advice from Dr. Daniyel’s personal experiences, and also includes a variety of tips from other sources, providing insights into the vast realm of break-ups and relationships in general.

Some of his recent relationship advice tips include:

·       Are You in a Parasitic Relationship?

·    Your Gut can tell you if a Relationship is Right

·       Ways Women Sabotage Themselves when Dating

·      Breaking The Bad Date Cycle

·     Common Problems Daters Encounter after Break-ups

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Intellect And Mind VS The Heart...

 Most people try to avoid expressing what’s in their heart. Today more men want to acknowledge their feelings in the first place because of the desire to bring women closer and women suppress them as not to be vulnerable. Because one may care more about a person the more complicated the relationship get.

My advice is to just talk about your feelings from day one! If you're not honest about your feelings in the beginning of the relationship it's probably sure not to work anyway!

If you CARE to be in a committed relationship, SPEAK UP! Don't bite your tongue and wake up two or three years from now still in a casual and sexual relationship. Most importantly, get clarity that your partner wants the same!

Men, if you FEEL like you just want to have a sexual relationship with no strings attached, FORGET ABOUT IT! Women can’t continue to create sexual and chemical bonds with you and allow uncertainty. It's not fair and its bad assumption even if the woman thinks it’s possible!

If you CARE enough to settle down, get married and/or have children, LET IT BE KNOWN! Do NOT waste your time with someone who doesn't want what you want?

And lastly, if you FEEL unappreciated, don't allow another day to pass without having a “CARE-frontation.” Without accusing your partner, share your experiences (information) that’s going to Enhance, Heal, Grow, and Advance the relationship.

What you FEEL is important write on paper first! Fear, Resentment, and Avoidance of Confrontation can be eliminated once you are “willing to be wrong about what you thought the person might say, do, respond or what you thought was going on.”  You miss the essentials when YOU want to be right and prove the other person wrong!

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Let This Year Be...

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Burning Bridges...

When you are "burning bridges," you are generally ending a relationship in such as way that it is unlikely to be reparable in the future. This idiomatic expression is frequently doled out as advice against treating others discourteously or behaving in an unprofessional manner because you can encounter those same people at some future point in time. "Burning bridges" is likely to result in an unfavorable endorsement from these individuals, particularly in a job situation. The origins of this saying can be traced to a common story of two different towns linked by a bridge over a river.

When a disagreement causes a rift, one group of citizens from one town sets fire to the bridge and therefore makes reconciliation with the other town much more challenging. The meaning of idioms such as "burning bridges" is often associated with accepted standards of behavior and interpersonal skills. This type of saying is often spoken when you leave a job position under negative circumstances and worsen the situation further by making disagreeable parting remarks to your superior. When you begin applying for new jobs, the chances of receiving a positive recommendation from that superior are generally not high. This same superior may have considerable influence, and this type of situation can often make the process of finding new employment more difficult than if professional behavior had been observed in the first place.

It is also possible to commit the figurative act of "burning bridges" in personal relationships. A bad break-up with a significant other is a frequent situation that can also bring this idiom to mind. While cutting off the chances of repairing the relationship may often feel gratifying in the short term, it can also sometimes take an emotional toll on both parties in the long run. Frequent acts of "burning bridges" in relationships can sometimes lead to increased feelings of loneliness and isolation as well.

While "burning bridges" is often a behavior many people advise against no matter what the situation, this English saying can sometimes also describe the best course of action under some circumstances. You may encounter a job position with such unfavorable conditions that "burning the bridge" renders you better off if you are not associated with the other individuals in that workplace. This case can be especially relevant when applied to employers with known records of unethical and dishonest behavior such as cheating their customers or failing to pay their employees for satisfactory work performed. The same principle can often apply to personal relationships in which one's significant other engages in abusive or criminal behavior.

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What You Feel, You Can Heal...!

Letting Go of Hurt as a Type of Healing

Those individuals who feel full of resentment and bitterness about the past can struggle to find happiness in life. They may well have been wronged badly in the past but to continue to hold on to hurt can become detrimental to the individual. In order to heal the individual will need to let go of their hurt and offer forgiveness. This is particularly important for those people who are recovering from hurt of a past relationship. Many make the mistake of not seeing the part of self guilty of demanding the other to be a certain way. The hurt and resentments can pull anybody back to disagreeable circumstances if they are not careful.

Forgiveness Defined

One way of defining forgiveness would be to say that it occurs when people cease to feel resentment against an offender. It is all about getting rid of bitterness and letting go of hurt. When people decide to forgive it means that they stop feeling angry and resentful about things that they perceive have been done wrong to them. It also means that they are no longer seeking retribution or punishment for the wrongdoer. The author Dr. Daniyel Willis once defined forgiveness as a gift you give yourself...recognizing your personal responsiblility is one of the most powerful ways of forgiveness.

Importance of Self Forgiveness in Relationships

Not only is it important to be able to forgive other people, but it is also vital that the individual learns to forgive themselves. Guilt can prevent people from finding comfort with others. This is a type of anger that the individual directs at themselves for perceived wrongdoing of the past – unlike resentment which is anger directed at other people. Those individuals who feel unable to forgive themselves will struggle to find comfort with others, and they can use this as an excuse to move forward. The usual reasons for why people feel unable to offer self forgiveness include:

• They have low self esteem – this means that they do not value themselves highly enough to feel worthy of forgiveness.
• If the individual feels unable to forgive themselves they also find it difficult to forgive other people.
• Some people have an internal code of conduct that is unrealistically high and uncompromising. This can come about if the individual grew up in a household that was extremely strict.
• The individual fails to understand that feeling guilty benefits nobody. A healthier approach is remorse because this involves trying to make up for past mistakes.
• Some people in relationships will be looking for an excuse to not improve. Their own feelings of guilt can provide them with this excuse.

Processing Bitterness, Hurt, and Resentment

When people are unable to recognize their personal responsibility for past wrongdoings (expectations the other person should be a certain way) it is often only them who suffers. This is because by holding hurt and feeling bitter and resentful the individual is negatively impacting their own life. It is like there has been two wrong done instead of one – not only was the person hurt by the initial wrongdoing, but now they are doing wrong to themselves by holding on to negativity. The person who was responsible for causing the original hurt may be completely oblivious to this resentment so it really is a waste of time. Offering forgiveness is not just about giving the other person a second chance – it is more about letting go of emotions that are causing the individual pain. When the individual lets go of their hurt (get out the back part of their brain) you arrive where you are simply frustrated. Heal yourself by processing your emotions... "What You Feel, You Can Heal!"

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[Relationships Topics] Your Dating Life Need This Facelift!

Boys Lie Men Don't: Conversations and Thoughts on Relationships is written by a Sterling-based trained social coach with relationship tip chapters on how people can renew their dating life! Dr. Daniyel Willis, D.D., a certified relationship coach, just returned from being a guest speaker at Civil Alert in Atlanta last month. He can discuss:

Your Dating Life Need This Facelift!
Daniyel has the woman of his dreams, but it wasn't that long ago he was making the same kinds of mis-steps we all do. Here are a few of his talking points on how women can get back in the dating game in a way that's empowering:
     * Give the nice guy a chance. Why nice guys don't finish last!
     * Don't get stuck in a "type". Why to be open when choosing a date.
     * Avoid negative talk. Don't let others sabotage your chance for fun!
     * Stop going out with guys you know are no good for you... and how to spot 'em in advance.
     * Why dating doesn't have to be so serious.

Dr. Daniyel tells how letting go of hurt and resentment is the key to finding joy in your dates.

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A certified relationship coach, Dr. Daniyel is the author of the bestselling book, Boys Lie Men Don't: Conversations and Thoughts on Relationships, and appears on blogtalk radio as the "Fix It Doctor." Learn more at http://www.blogtalkradio.com/boysliemendont.

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